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6 months back I called it quits with my boyfriend of 3 years because it was a super long distance relationship (different continents xD) and I felt it didn’t attract me much, any further. Inexperienced as I was, before I could let myself move on or heal, I jumped to the next prospect of relationship with this guy I was severely infatuated with. He is a classmate of mine and I ended up telling him a yes when he proposed. Like I asked him lot many times if he could take me visiting my ex or if he’d be fine by me gone for a while n at the same time I had assured nothing intimate would spark because that is exactly why I had called quits with my ex, because the attraction had just faded. The same day I told him what and he lashed out for betrayal n left. However two days after he forgave me, established a physically intimate relationship with me and continued to show me hope for 2 Months. We did fight regularly ..But nothing lasted longer than a day. Until suddenly last week he called it quits while I was begging him, he blocked me. Now I see him in person at class and starts to resume whatever the usual stuff we do while saying that unga Belgiska damer we are not together. I understand he’s angry but I don’t understand wtf is his plan now. Or if he has a plan at all. Now do u still recommend me to get the advanced plan?
He knows that he can’t avoid you in class so there’s no point acting weird but he is still upset and isn’t willing to talk to you privately. If you want to win him back, you’re going to have to give him some space and consider working on your emotions before you try properly reaching out again. The EBP Advanced System would help you work on addressing these issues, to provide you with guidelines on how to best win him back, and how to ensure it lasts, along with the Advanced Healing Worksheets to gauge your progress.
I’m 20 and she’s 18. I cheated on my girlfriend about a month ago, we were only together for 1 month officially but we were dating for about 3. The girl I slept with was a girl she really disliked but I was very drunk and I know that is not an excuse, she didn’t find out through me which made matters worse. She wouldn’t talk to me for the last 2 weeks and would only get in touch with me to say meanful things. Now that we are okay I feel this is a good time to give her space to focus on the good rather than the bad, how long should I wait till I make contact again? Do you think it’s possible that I can get her back? What do you recommend I should do next? Thank you.
It sounds possible that she may eventually forgive you and let go of the incident, but you’re going to have to work at gaining her trust again. Since the last contact initiated was positive, perhaps wait a couple of days before reaching out again with a light-hearted topic or even a sweet gesture.
