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I cried and I confessed. I told him everything. The phone calls. The meetings that happened in a hotel room. The lies I told him. He said he never felt so betrayed by anyone. He didn’t want to see me. He left the house to stay at a friends.
The fact is, your act of infidelity was a shock to your ex. It hurt them deeply and they are still trying to come to terms with what happened. At this point, if you try to console them or make them feel better, it’s just going to make it worse.
But since you cheated on your ex, and you want them back, there are a few other things you need to focus on while you and your ex are taking space away from each other.
To give you some number, only 15% of couples of breakup end up back together in a long lasting relationship. That number comes from a large scale study we did a few years ago and it has been widely accepted by most experts in the world.
A lot of times an ex will forgive you the first time you cheated on them. But if you cheat on them a second time even after they forgave you, it’s going to be even harder for them to forgive you and trust you again.
Well, for starters, you need to read the 5 Step Plan or this huge guide on getting an ex girlfriend back. Both these articles are free and will give you a step by step plan to follow.
A couple day ago I ran into my ex, we talked and and decided to go out just to catch up on things, I had no intentions with him, but when we say each other he kept talking about when we were together, I wasn’t feeling good at the time and I fell for it, we messaged days later, my boyfriend saw the messages and broke up with me, we’ve talked little since then but he is really hurt, I don’t love my ex and I want my boyfriend back,I’m a couple of months I’m leaving so I dont have much time, what should I do?
So my ex was everything to me. I broke his trust once and he gave me the “one more time that’s it” well I lost that one more time. He said that if I wanted him back I needed to be me, authentic, real and honest. I’m not entirely sure what to do. I’ve read everything you said I’ve followed your rules and it seems mina kГ¤llor like I’m getting no reaction and both seems to work. I’m in a state of panic and I’m resisting the urge to fall on my knees and beg for him. Please help.
These things usually takes time to build up since trust is not easily earned. You’ll have to show her through consistent efforts and sincerity over a prolonged period (most probably) in order to convince her that you’ve changed. There isn’t much you can do specifically other than hope she comes around eventually and sees your current efforts instead of past actions.
I’ve never cheated on my boyfriend until 3months back. We’ve been together for 2 and half years. I wanted to confess to him but I didn’t know where to start from. Finally, he found out 3months back and was expecting me to confess, but I didn’t. He broke up with me yesterday. I begged and Cried and told him to reconsider, but he refused. He said many harsh words to me. I feel terrible, I also considered sucide. I’m broken down everyday. He said we can be friends but will never date. What should i do?
Give that two weeks of space first before going back to work and trying to slowly reach out to mend things. He might not be very receptive at the start but you’ll have to be patient in trying to get him to forgive you and move past this.
You can ask him how he feels about you, and I think you should be honest if you want to start anew with him, even if it jeopardizes your chances or his decision.
Hi, I don’t understand why my ex boyfriend still wants us to be friends after I cheated on him (which I already apologise) and I asked him if there will still be a chance that we’ll get back together and he clearly says that «there is no chance». He replies politely when I message him but never contacts me first (I have not use no contact rule). He said that it’s okay with him if I texted him and he’s also okay if I won’t. He also says that he still finds the reason to come back but he believes that he can maybe see it with another girl. I don’t really understand what he wants and really mean. I also clearly told him that I realize how much I love him and that I really want to get back together. Should I use no contact rule? I am scared that if I use no contact rule he will misunderstand it,he might think that I am not really sincere that I want to get back together.
You’re going to have to give him time to let go of the incident. Not many people would be willing to move past this immediately (with reason), and it’ll take time plus effort in order to win him back.
It really depends on how strong he holds his morals because if he genuinely loves you but values his morals more, nothing you say or do would change his mind in giving things a second shot.
It’s good to remain positive during this time, and to pick yourself up from the breakup. Given what has happened, if she is adamant about going through with the divorce, there isn’t much you can do about it right now unfortunately. There’s still always a chance, just a matter of how high/low they are, and whether you’re patient enough to pull through, because sometimes it can take years and both parties going through their own phases in life separately before reconciliation happens.
I cheated on my boyfriend (ex) with his best friend while he was asleep right next to us but I felt pressured into doing the stuff with his best friend who was my best friends boyfriend I told my best friend what happened then shortly after my boyfriend (ex) he said he felt something special that were gonna be together forever and I think I broke his heart we’ve been talking as friends after like 2 week of no contact and he’s mentioned sometimes he misses me or that I cross his mind I asked if I could get a second chance and he said ‘idk yet’ I don’t know what to do now please help
